Dealing with a long-distance relationship (LDR) can be tough, but finding the perfect gift for your partner doesn’t have to be. In this guide, I have rounded up some thoughtful and fun gifts that will make your loved one feel cherished and connected, even when you’re miles apart.
My eleven-year-old relationship went through its fair share of lows when we were doing LDR for three years. And what helped us feel loved and appreciated during those times, apart from our LDR dates, were the long-distance relationship gifts!
Therefore, I completely understand that LDRs can be challenging, but with a little creativity and thoughtfulness, you can make your partner feel loved and happy!
Remember, it’s the thought that counts, so don’t stress about finding the perfect gift. The most important thing is to show your love and support in a meaningful way.
So, without further ado, let us get started with the blog…
Long Distance Relationship Gifts: Different Couple, Different Needs!
So, you think that you do not need to give gifts to your partner to prove your love? Think again! You might be missing out on something.
When you are in a relationship, you can meet often (almost every day) and spend time with your partner to show love. But what happens when you are in an LDR? You cannot be physically present to show your love to one another.
This is when gifts help you out!
When you can’t be physically present, a thoughtful gift can bridge the gap and make your partner feel loved and appreciated. It is a tangible reminder that you’re thinking of them, even when you’re miles apart.
Long-distance relationship gifts can help maintain emotional intimacy and keep the romance alive. In my case, it made the wait until our next meeting a bit more bearable.
But you cannot randomly pick and choose any gift. Every couple is unique, and so are their preferences. What works for one couple might not work for another.
That’s why choosing gifts that reflect your partner’s personality and your relationship’s dynamics is important. For instance, if your partner loves reading, a book by their favourite author can be a perfect gift. If they enjoy technology, a gadget that makes their life easier can show how much you care.
Thoughtful Gifts for Couples Who Miss Physical Touch
Long-distance relationships can become unbearable sometimes. This is especially true for people who rely much more on physical intimacy and love spending time together. Missing your partner’s hug, gentle touch, or even the feeling of their hand in yours is a common thing… a regular battle.
However, there are plenty of thoughtful long-distance relationship gifts that can bridge this gap. These can be personalized items or other gifts that stimulate sensory emotions. Here are a few gifts that you can consider:
Friendship Touch Lamps
Times have changed, and we no longer need to send telegrams to our mile-away partners. If you want them to know you are missing them, get yourself a pair of touch lamps— one for you and one for your partner.
Whenever you miss them, just gently pat the lamp. The other lamp that stays with your partner will automatically change color, no matter how far apart you are.
Pocket Tokens
Very similar to lucky charms and extremely easy to carry around (just upkeep them in the pocket), these have become one of the items couples in long-distance relationships buy each other.
You can personalize these tokens as you need. When I gave this to my boyfriend, I got it customized. One side had a picture of us imprinted, and the other had a line from our favourite song. You do you!
Scented Candles
Now, this is not for everyone, but if this is something that your partner likes, it is a great option! A scented candle that reminds you of a favourite memory together can transport you back to a special moment.
You can also DIY it and make it with your perfume that reminds him of you (the choice is yours.) And yes, you can also write whatever you want (something romantic, sweet, or the dirtiest thing) on the label and send it to him!
Touch Bracelets
Like friendship lamps work, touch bracelets are the coolest things in the market for couples in long-distance relationships. One stays with you, and the other bracelet stays with your partner.
Whenever you miss them, touch your bracelet a few times. No matter the distance, their bracelet will light up and buzz. This is a great way to let them know they are on your mind and is one of the best things to do in an LDR!
Personalized Wall Art
If you and your partner are artsy, creating personalized wall art is a great way to show them you love them and to be on each other’s minds.
The most common one is a line art of the two of you. You can do it yourself or ask any other professional to create one. Furthermore, it can also be a favorite quote of the two of you, framed nicely.
THE Toy
Yes, it is exactly what you think it is. While gifts and all are great, there are times when you desperately need the physical touch of your partner. As the saying goes, absence makes the heart grow fonder, and the distance makes you grow hornier.
Physical intimacy, which is lacking in an LDR, is important. And probably in times like these, getting each other a sex toy is something that can work like magic.
Get your partner a remote-controlled vibrator. And KEEP THE REMOTE WITH YOU! (**wink wink**)
Gifts to Bridge the Communication Gap
Communication is the key. And you need this the most when it comes to long-distance relationships.
My partner and I had a hard time during the initial few months of our LDR even if we were in a committed relationship for years.
We had different schedules and were tired when we got home. Even though we would speak to each other on video calls whenever we got the time, it was never enough.
So, I decided to do something: make him a love jar with daily affirmations. I even wrote a note on top of it— “OPEN WHEN YOU MISS ME XOXO.”
You do not have to do the same thing, but you get my point! Here are a few things that you can do in case you want to bridge the communication gap:
Digital Photo Frames
When Ed Sheeran said, “We keep this love in a photograph,” we felt it! This is why I think gifting your partner a digital photo frame is one of the best things you can do to let them know how much you love them.
One of the best long-distance relationship gifts, it ensures that you and your partner are constantly reminded of the beautiful experiences and memories you share (awww… so wholesome!)
Flowers
Even though I can buy myself flowers, I would rather want them from my partner. And this is the same for literally everyone.
Flowers, be it a bouquet or just one, can do a magical job to let your partner know how much you appreciate them. So, get it delivered to them, and they will surely love it (unless they are allergic to pollen).
Psst… You don’t have to wait for a special day to send them flowers!
Couples App
This is the digital age and thank God we have apps just for the two of you!
Apps like Couple, Locket Widget, and Between have existed for a few years. They work great if you want to use technology to come to the rescue.
These apps have features like tracking the location (some even notify you when they are near your location) and adding reminders for important days. The one I use(d) even lets us raise a pet together!
Photobooks
Has anybody ever said that taking a walk down memory lane never works? No! Do you know why? Because it always does!
If you and your partner are in the middle of a fight (which is bound to happen in an LDR), these photobooks work as anchors. They remind you of two memories you have shared, making you feel all cozy and nice!
You can customize it from somewhere or make it yourself. If you want to do the latter, you can buy a journal or planner and add photos of the two of you and the memories you share. Write a caption on each of them and send it to them.
Gifts for Couples Who Share Common Interests
Some couples are fortunate to share common interests. And honestly speaking, they have it much easier as both find happiness in the same thing. If you and your partner are one of them, there are a few things that you can do:
Concert Tickets
Love music? Get your partner a ticket to their favorite musician’s concert! Trust me, they will thank you for the rest of the year.
And guess what? If you can fly to the same venue and surprise your partner, it will make their world pink.
Gamer Couple
While I wish I was into games because my partner loves gaming, it is unfortunate that I could never play hardcore games with him online. However, I did something that he loved: getting him gift cards for Valorant!
If both of you are into gaming, you can buy a new game or preorder it before it launches so that you can play it together!
It does not always have to be expensive. If there is no upcoming game, you can get your partner figurines and merch from a game you both play together (the one you call “OUR GAME”)!
Couple Outfit
Even though a couple of outfits have been around for a long time, someone’s charm never fades! No, it does not have to be “King and Queen.”
You can have the same outfit, a gray hoodie, and have the initials of your name embroidered either on the sleeves, near the cuffs, or on the pockets.
Book a Trip
Traveling together and sharing adventure and excitement is one of the best things a couple can do to strengthen their bond and make new memories. And if both of you love to travel, sending your partner a ticket to the next trip is probably one of the best things to do!
It can be mountains, a sea beach, forests, or a new city that has been on both of your bucket lists. Just select the destination and surprise them with the tickets.
Keep the Love Alive with Long Distance Relationship Gifts
So, there you have a whole bunch of gift ideas for your long-distance loved one! From personalized items to sensory experiences, there’s something for everyone.
Remember, the most important thing is choosing a gift that shows your partner how much you care and think of them.
Do you have any favorite gifts for long-distance relationships? Share your ideas in the comments below! I would love to hear from you.
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